 the male dancer
written by Anth on 20.08. at 15:15:22 - as answer to: Re: Got a question for ya.... by dancingdoc >Dancer dude asked us:>>Ok, this is a dancebelt question and I know there are a million of them, but i have to ask...Hopefully, i won't offend anyone...i'm in my mid teens and i've been dancing for a couple years and ballet for about 4 months....apparently, guys are completely against wearing tights around here so teachers don't at all make you wear tights so i've never had to worry about it...but i'll have to perform soon and wear tights for that...so my dancebelt question is, "how do you wear it?"..if i point up, then it looks like i have this freakishly huge bulge and if i point it down it looks freakishly big too...i prefer down but i know most people don't wear it like that...are you supposed to wear it up? like do you have to? is this bulge supposed to be so big? because i'm not that hung at all and it looks huge...it's just that there aren't any male dancers around me who wear tights that i can compare it so i don't know how big it's suppposed to be...hopefully, i haven't offended any of you and i would appareciate any and every responose... thanks =)(Good questions - I follow the replies with interest. I hated my dancebelt, so I gave up on it. It was uncomfortable, distracting, and I'd certainly never have worn it with tights in class. As you said, things just seem to bulge out of all proportion; I don't know why.)>There's a lot of concern about how to wear a dancebelt, and what the resulting look will be. And whether or not it's good for your privates - if it's worn as 'snugly' as some people suggest, even for a few hours a week, I can't see that it does much for all those blood vessels.I've got lots of different dancebelts (Not that I collect them; it's just that friends over the years have given them to me after I give my dancebelt "lecture.") (You can have mine if you want), but I believe they're all essentially the same.Which is a shame - if someone invented one that actually has a proper back, not a piece of string, I'd probably wear one for protection against the 'nutcracker' effect. Perhaps that's what I hate about them most. I still don't understand how it is that most guys (pros and classmates alike) look 'normal' - nothing untoward; and yet when I tried on the full 'kit' I looked, and felt, unbelievably stupid. Answers to this message: |
