written by Bob  on 26.03. at 20:46:48

>Wow!  I go away for a few days and come back to read so many angry messages.  Since beginning to dance I have found this forum to be invaluable.  I visit it often, for there is much to be learned here.  I would hate to see it dissolve into a platform for displaying anger. Therefore, I suggest we all follow the wise example of Tom. I have noticed that he will respond only to those questions he feels are legitimate.  Those that are posted merely to elicit shock, those that are written from perverted point of view, he chooses to ignore.  I think we should all do the same.  In the future, let us all agree to ignore the weird postings, to give them no attention whatsoever.  If we do so, they will eventually go away, or at least be kept to a minimum.  I am certain those who post inappropriate messages have a ball sitting back and watching all the havoc they create.  Let us not give them the satisfaction.  Instead, let us resolve to attack no one, not the weirdos who post the bizarre messages, and most especially, not the sincere dancers whose valuable input we all need.