the male dancer
written by Dr. Dancebelt on 25.05. at 01:01:27 - as answer to: Getting "Excited" about ballet by Willie at Ballet can be extremely sensual because you are totally aware of your body - really using it and experimenting with how far it can go before hitting its limits. You are surrounded by lithe ballerinas in skintight apparel (including your girl friend). Finally, you are wearing clothes that fit and feel quite unusual themselves. Believe me, you are not the first guy to have an erection problem under those circumstances! Did I ever tell you about the time I... (uh, never mind!) So what do you do to minimize the problem? - First, buy a tighter dance belt. Dance belts are supposed to keep the look of that nice rounded male mound no matter what is really going on under it. For instance, the Capezio quilted model obscures the lines of your maleness in its own padded shell, while a "training bra" model like an MStevens will not give you the ironclad containment you need. - The unusual tight fit of a dance belt can be stimulating all by itself to someone who hasn't worn one much. Just the friction of the dancebelt against the tender underside of your penis might be setting you off. If this is the case, you can desensitize yourself to the feeling by wearing your dance belt several extra hours a day until you get more used to the feeling. -When you get to class, avoid looking at the girls' nipples protruding through their leotards and similar things. Heck, avoid looking them at all unless you can mentally make them appear to be the fat hippos in Fantasia! Concentrate, concentrate, concentrate on your own dancing. There really isn't much about a tendu' to get that excited about.-Remember that even totally flacid, you are going to have a distinct male mound in your tights. Look in the mirror to make sure your erection really is as visible to your classmates as you think it is. Has your girlfriend commented on how you look? Does she really think there's a monster in your tights? If so, maybe you could enlist her help by reducing your biological backpressure just before class.
>I have what I consider an unusual problem, and I need the advice of all my fellow ballet dancers. I began to take ballet lessons at the insistance of my girlfriend. I had no problem with wearing the tights and dancebelt, but I began to notice that I'm getting quite aroused in class. It's quite a turn on to me to be wearing tights, and be surrounded by so many great looking girls in their skin tight outfits. My biggest problem is that my girlfriend has noticed that I'm at "full attention" with the other girls in our ballet classes. She thimks she's created a monster in tights. What can I do to prevent my passion for the other dancers from being so obvious??? Answers to this message: |