Evidently,"Chris" is not aware that Danskin does produce a limited selection of men's tights (Black/White),though that is neither here nor there.Is your ballet director amenable to an alternative selection re ballet hose? M. Stevens is the tight of choice for most professional male dancers;from experience,I can tell you they are most comfortable,pliable and sensual-all without revealing something you would rather not display in public (at least not too much).They also carry a fine line of dance belts.I've worn 'em,performed in 'em,and would vouch for their quality.As for your arousal problem;it comes with the territory,relax and focus on your choreography.Good luck.