I also feel that he created the Dancingdoc story in order to gain attention. I'd be very wary of a person like this. Perhaps this Balletboy "disappeared" out of sheer embarrassment, as his story was extremely far fetched (having read about it ad nauseum on a different site). Be careful, don't be gullible and watch who you give personal info to. I know of a person who befriended a dancer, asked for pics and info and then exploited this info on his own personal fetish website. Do you know Devilred's site? It is now gone and I have a feeling that it belonged to this Balletboy or Dancingdoc individual and when people started questioning his motives, he shut it down out of fear (yes, there are MANY FBI and law enforcement employees working on the Internet, posing as young people in order to weed out the sickos). Be warned, they are watching YOU, too. You may have already gotten personal with them.