 the male dancer
written by Tom             on 03.09. at 15:36:10 - as answer to: Re: I need help by Bob at>Just because you dance doesn't mean you're gay. There are plenty of straight male dancers.>Why don't you tell them you want to dance, but sidestep the gay issue for now. If they say "then that must mean you're gay because you want to dance", you can tell them that actually it doesn't mean that --- some male dancers are gay and some are straight. I agree with Bob, although I admit it's hard to offer advice whenyou don't know the situation from the inside. But you did ask.... You have to live your own life & not let others live it for you.Unless you're financially dependent on your family, you should actto please yourself. And don't worry about the gay issue. If it werepossible (I've said this before, but it bears repeating)...if itwere possible to prove that I was the only non-gay man into balletover the entire history of the art, from Catherine di Medici cleardown to the present day, I would do it anyway. It's my life. Tom Parsons Answers to this message: |
