 the male dancer
written by Billy ElliotUK                on 12.04. at 19:27:53 - as answer to: Work Out/Dance Belt/Sex by jaygrren29, jaygrren29@yahoo.com>Three questions that have really been bothering me. I dance at least 3-5 hours a day, and then on top of that I do push ups and sit ups. due to my hectic schedual I dont have time to go to the gym, and I tend to eat poorly. I am very thing, but still have some excess that makes me feel uncomfortable in dance clothes, or the thought of dancing shirtless. I can't loose it. i also really want to bulk up. i'll be starting a class in partnering and I don't want to be too weak. Also my dance belt...I place my penis they way everyone says but I feel so squished and everything tends to shrink...and then making me feel less..impressive. (also it hurts to do exercises laying on your stomach and lifting arms and legs...my weight is right on my penis). Also I am straight, and I don't find guys attractive...except in ballet. Its wierd to me I'm never attracted to guys outside of class...in any degree of undressed or how good shape they are in. But a guy in tights dancebelt and tight shirt turns me on. I don't know what that means...because I wouldn't feel like doing anything with them, but I am still attracted then. is this strange? Curious issues. Careful you don't over train otherwise, you'll start to burn the muscle you just built. Food is your friend, you are what you eat, so if you don't eat enough you won't bulk up. They are subtitutes out there that bodybuilders use, like the slimfast plan in reverse, but I haven't tried them out of aprehension, so I couldn't advise it. The last thing you should do is label yourself as gay or straight, that's society trying to make sense of things. I suspect if you only find boys attractive in tights, it is probably out of admirartion, after all its what you want to be yourself, and there's nothing wrong with looking up to your peers. Some of them may have the body you're looking for, in which case ask them how they acheived it. They'll always play it down saying they don't work out, but don't be intimidated, just ask them, your worth every bit as much as them, so good luck in your career! Answers to this message: |
