 the male dancer
written by ernie at on 18.06. at 02:36:46 - as answer to: Is something wrong with a man that wears tights? by Chuck at > I am and feel like a real man and wearing tights is not affecting what so ever my manhood. In the new class that I am attending, there was only one guy ( my same age) and he is not playing in my same team (if you know what I mean) so the rest of the group (all females of course) look at me in a very embarrasing way. I had even,catched this other guy, looking at my bulge in a very insistent way when I do my stretches and barres excercises. The whole situation is making me think about leaving the whole the thing. I do believe that ballet is something healthy, respectful and decent. Is a way of art expression that should be consider and bring up to higher levels. Why then society imposse so much pressure on straight guys that want to take this field as a carreer. I feel that I am very good at it but the situation is making feel dissapointed and the idea of changing my future has been crossing my mind several times. Can somebody out there please help me and give a good advice. Thanks you all very much. my advise to you is not to worry about what other people are doing to you. if you have a problem with that guy in your class, ask your instructor to have a talk with him. do me a favor. send me some pics of you in your tights. id love to have a look at you. Answers to this message: |
