 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Seamless at on 16.03. at 00:52:12 - as answer to: Re: Help with my confession or problem? by D >>Question-- Other than sharing your experience, what is the intention of your posting? Are you unsure about your sexuality and have started to explore the "taboo" side of it? Or are you fairly confident that you are gay, but have just been afraid to explore that part of yourself yet? Did you have any sexual attraction to Lelga during those early years? Maybe by answering these questions, we'll have an idea of what you're trying to accomplish, and perhaps help you. Otherwise, I'll go on for a few pages speculating on various possibilities!>>Take care,>>~Seamless~>Seamless, thanks very much for your reply! It has been very hard for me to accept that I have a feminine side, at least up to now, and I believe that I finally want to accept such and move "ahead" with my life and no longer hide such from even myself. I might even want to explore such, even with another man if such an encounter comes about. I don't believe that there is anything wrong with exploring that "taboo" part of my life and it's great that this board, as well as others, exist. Unfortunately, men in general are taught that such feelings are terrible, unacceptable, etc., and I think that most men can not enjoy what might be the "better half" of themselves. As for Lelga, well, I was attracted to her certainly, but even more so when she would wear her ballet outfit. I don't think I am totally gay but I am willing to accept the fact that it's ok to be intimate with another man and not suffer for doing such. I may not go "looking" for such an encounter but if one does happen, I will now be less likely to refuse such based on the no-no's of society. I can see also from these boards, that others feel this way also and it's great to know that!>Thanks again for your very nice reply!--Hi Donil, you're welcome. So, I think I get your situation. By saying that you don't think you're "totally gay", pretty much means you're bisexual. The question is, which side to you lean towards. In some uncommon cases, a person may be split down the middle. But usually there is a "leaning". Based on that, I think you should definitely explore what your heart tells you. Discover your own need and fulfill it. Just be careful of the STD's out there during your adventures! Always better safe than sorry.As for me... well, I'm straight up and down. Was confused during childhood, partly because of the fetish and partly due to my subdued shy nature back then. In college I almost sampled "the other side", but my instincts kept me at bay. My alignment is women! :-) That's my scoop, in case you were curious. But one last thing--a major piece to consider in is your religion. Personally, I feel we all have a relationship to Creation. And in each case, one must take their own situation in hand and address it. Regardless of what religion says. If you feel you are at peace with what you do, then go for it. If you have a torn feeling of reservation, then you must do your own soul searching first to find out what is right for you. Cheers and good luck,~Seamless~ Answers to this message:
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