 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Dep on 10.04. at 06:23:04 - as answer to: Re: sisters by Seamless at >>>~Seamless~>>Good observation, Seamless. I used to sneak into my mom's room and take out a pair of pink tights she had. After some time of this (and here I thought I was SO careful to put them back "just right"), she confronted me. I was about five or six at the time. She was so insistant, not angry but kept saying, "Why were you wearing mommie's pink tights? You're a little BOY" over and over, making me feel SO BAD....HUMILIATED! I often think that if she didn't make such a big deal over it, that it may have been a passing thing. But that taboo, made it all the more needed.>>Back to the main topic of this thread: while I had no sisters, I did have a younger cousin, who around this time, let me wear her tights and leotards. What a rush that was! Too bad she lived in another state. I also put on her older sister's tutus, but they were much too large for me, and I suck with her navy blue tights and leotards.>>--EMPIRA>-->Hi Empira, thanks for sharing your experience. Yep, I would agree that the emphasis on WRONG made it "worse". Ironic how this is the opposite effect that they wanted. Well, for many years I "punished" myself for this fetish. It was only until recent years I was able to embrace and accept it (well, somewhat). I still have fear of being rejected for it, in which case my attitude shifts back to hatred of this fetish. All the while, it probably saved me much aggravation. Where I would have been combing the neighborhood having casual sex indiscriminately with women, I was having fun with tights instead. I'm convinced this fetish kept me "cleaner". Definitely. And being able to enjoy both sexual worlds kind of gives an advantage...>Yet, if I ever find a "soulmate" and she ends up rejecting me because of tights... well, I guess you could say that lack of tolerance spells other trouble. But I would find it very difficult to keep from shredding every unitard and pair of tights I have...>~Seamless~ >>>I've been there! Every time I've gotten into a new relationship, I started by tossing whatever tights I'd collected during the "drought." But you know what? The affairs augured in anyway. I'm sure Dea and I are for keeps, but if I ever found myself "back in the field again" (as Kid Creole would say,) I wouldn't shed a single pair. Matter of fact, I'd get the confession out of the way at the earliest safe opportunity. If she can't handle it, she can't handle me (I'm more difficult in other ways, believe you me.) There ARE women out there who can understand one of us us, and some who are intrigued by us. I wouldn't date a girl who didn't like pop music, why should I date someone who doesn't like tights?-Depon Answers to this message:
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