 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Dep on 04.07. at 23:30:45 - as answer to: Re: Who do I choose? by Seamless at >>>When I met Dea, she was wearing black tights. First good sign! If I were out trolling for potential partners, I wouldn't do it in the summer, unless of course, I ran into a girl who wore tights even in August. Paydirt!>>>On our first date, black tights again (under a long black skirt with a slit to above mid-thigh. I didn't have a chance!) After dinner, we went back to her place, and I gallantly offered her a foot massage. (Felt good to her, felt great to me, and I think sort of "set the stage" for introducing my love for both tights and girl's feet! Clever, no?)>>>Dea and I were both a bit shy about letting our sexuality loose, at first (we'd both given too much to the wrong people, if you know what I mean. You should've seen her reaction after I kissed her "other lips" for the first time. Charming, but I prefer the reaction I get now!) But yeah, it was a post-coital sex talk session that allowed me to open up the subject of my fetishes. And yes, she INSTANTLY remembered that first date!>>>Somehow, at some point (I was so nervous, I couldn't remember the exact details of the conversation,) I managed to sheepishly broach the subject of my life in tights. Dea was supercool about it (and I pretty much resolved to stay with her for keeps!) Later she told me that I'd picked the perfect time and situation to bring the whole thing up. I had gained her trust (and more importantly for this situation, learned to trust her,) showed her something about my inner self, and it truly brought us together.>>>From then on, it was a case of gradually being less ashamed about the whole thing. Dea thinks I'm a great lover (sorry, gotta brag a bit,) and, at that point, didn't mind me wearing tights if it got me turned on. Thing was, Dea really doesn't like wearing tights as much as I do. It's funny, there'll be days when Dea picks me up from work, we go to my place, and the first thing I do is put on a pair of tights, and the first thing Dea does is take her's off! That used to bug me, but I learned to consider it one of HER quirks. She understands mine, and I gotta understand hers, right?>>>Sure enough, NOW Dea actually has begun to associate wearing tights with sexuality. She knows that if I'm not quite in the mood, all she's gotta do is slip into some opaques, and I'll come around! And she's also begun to appreciate the way I look in 'em too. She's got one of those bedroom closets where the door is two huge mirrors, and I began to notice her shifting her position to get a better view. The location of her hands during sex was another one. She used to scrupulously avoid touching me below the waistband, but now it's a whole other story!>>>Now, the gates are pretty much open. We've discussed (with varying degress of enthusiasm on either of our parts): her curiosity about female sexuality, and mine for male (jury's still out on those two, I'll let you know.) Voyeurism (my upstairs neighbors were pretty loud for a while, and we both dug it immensely. And Dea's taste for pornography is actually approaching mine,) exhibitionism (too much to say about this for this post!), who knows what'll be next? Lately, Dea's been realizing that she doesn't know enough about herself sexually as I do about myself, so we're going to explore that in depth. >>>Frankly, it's the sex life I'd dreamed of having! And it all came from honesty, trust, timing, but most of all, finding the right person. Hope that helps!-Depon Answers to this message:
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