 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by DancemaniaK at on 19.07. at 17:31:35 - as answer to: Re: My decision and thankyou..... by Tom >I'm sorry if I sound unsympathetic, but this just staggers me.>How could you *fail* to tell her you do ballet? Ballet can be>such an obsession, such an important part of one's life (just>ask Dancer At Last, formerly known as Riddler!). You weren't>*ashamed* of doing ballet, were you? Impossible! Did you think>she Wouldn't Understand? How could you get involved with anyone>who could not understand such a big part of your life?>(I knew a girl who once asked a newlywed friend, "How could you>marry someone who doesn't like science fiction?" Well...how>could you get involved with someone who doesn't understand>ballet?)>And what on earth did you talk about? Or, more important, when>you had an especially good class (or an especially bad one), how>could you get through the evening without sharing it with her?>(The first thing my wife asks me when I come home from a class>is, "How did it go?"--thus giving me an opportunity to exult, or>to cry on her shoulder.)>Tom Hi Tom! Firstly, thanks for the great webpage. Second, I stopped taking ballet about 2 years ago because of a back injury and when I say, "she never knew I took ballet", what I mean to say was she never new I had done ballet in the past. Third, I was never ashamed of doing ballet. I did it for the right reasons. I am however terribly ashamed of my fetish and have surrended to the fact that it will haunt me for the rest of my life. Regards DancemaniaK Answers to this message: |
