 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by The Riddler on 10.10. at 17:13:56 - as answer to: losing the fetish - anyone, anyone? by Seamless at >I'm losing my fetish. It just doesn't have the same pull for me anymore. I watch MPGs on my computer of women prancing about in nothing but tights or pantyhose, and... it just isn't as thrilling as watching a video of a woman in the throws of intercourse.>Years ago, I used to worry about the fetish. That it had more power than my heterosexual yearnings. That it would keep me from a fulfilled sexual life with a woman. I eventually discovered that if I didn't get caught up with this worry, sex was usually just as thrilling with a woman if not more. But something in the back of my mind always kept at me... I imagined myself an older man in my 60's, in a room by myself somewhere massaging my manhood through thickly binding tights and... it bothered me.>A few times here and there I'd find myself totally unaroused by wearing tights. Just a phase, I thought. And so it seemed from time to time. Then in this past year these moments started happening more often. Now I find I hardly feel anything, without really working hard at it.>It's weird. I still like tights. I put them on and they feel comfortable. But... I just don't get aroused much anymore. Has anyone else found themselves feeling this way too? Or have you found your fetish to transform itself in one way or another?>In peace,>~Seamless~ I to have had times in my life when I didn't feel like putting on my tights and leotards either. I have gone for years without giving any thought to tights, or ballet, or Lycra, but it's always come back to me. I feel that a fetish, no matter what type of fetish, has it's lulls, and high points. I feel that if you really overdo any fetish, you can indeed quickly become bored by it. My advise, don't wear your tights and leotards everyday. Save them for special times. Remember, too much of a good thing is bad for you!! Answers to this message:
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