 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Dep on 12.10. at 22:34:41 - as answer to: Re: hello? by Vic at >>>>>>>Thanks for your kind words, and please accept my support & sympathies for the hard times you all are having. As hard as it is when the family members are elderly, as in my case, it has to be very hard when the someone you love is more in their prime years. It's good that you & Dea are pulling togther. Marie is great at the "crunch times", but the long-haul, day-in-day-out stress is another thing. I tend to "rage against the dying of the light", while she sees this as the closing chapter of a long, well written book. Her view is probably healthier, but I can't help how I'm wired, and my depression and stress doesn't sit well with her sometimes.> Prayers and good wishes to you two and Dea's sister--- Vic >>>Thanks so much, Vic. Me, I just c0ncentrate on how much tougher this is on Dea (and her sis,) so I just shift into trying to be the most supportive boyfriend I can. We've been getting even closer thanks to this ordeal, and we both feel we can handle almost anything, so long as we share it. So it's been awful, but oddly empowering. I'm totally sure now that I'm with the woman I truly should be with. And this? This is quite the lesson in perspective, know what I mean?-D (Next post will be a LOT sexier, and encouraging to cats like us...) Answers to this message: |
