 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Dep on 11.11. at 19:36:10 - as answer to: Re: tights sex? by Vic at >.>>>>>>>>>I think the best way to approach the situation is to try and engender a free-wheeling, giddy atmosphere where you & her can just whip out a bunch of random, kinky ideas and approach it from the standpoint of "hey! We're kidding around, but this one sounds pretty fun! Dare ya to give it a go!" I know this is easier said than done, but I think if it's "on a lark" rather than a big, worked-up plan, there's more chance of success. Or at least a graceful exit, in case it doesn't fly with her.> Ironically, in my relationship, it's Marie that is the one that keeps me "pushing the envelope". I had a very inhibited, conservative upbringing, and she brings a lot of spice to my life. We've been together over 20 years now, and I know my life would be pretty damn dull without her. I just wish "regular life" (work, bills, chores, etc.) didn't suck so much energy out of the both of us. But HEY! When it works out and comes together, ZOW!! Good Luck- Vic >>>Genuine words of wisdom, Vic! And I'm in exactly the same place. Dea and I are more in love than ever, but man, it sure seems like we spend a lot of time and energy dealing with everyday crap! Buddhism helps. Anyway, it's great to be hearing from you again. I'm spending the day working on some fiction for y'all, see next post.-D (In: White DKNYs. Being: Careful, as the kid has got today off as well...) Answers to this message:
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