 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by The Riddler at on 31.08. at 13:56:16 - as answer to: I am not turned on by men, sometimes by women, but always by tights by SeXuAllY CoNfUsEd at >I do not get turned on by boys or men as I have tested this by watching gay porn. Blah, it did nothing for me. I do get turned on by women. I have had intercourse enjoyably in the past with women, but it does not turn me on as much as wearing tights. I can put on a pair of thick stretchy tights with a dance belt over them for added intimacy, slide into bed with them on to enhance the feeling of tights wrapped around me, then all I have to do is imagine the tights changing me into a woman and I get the most incredible orgasms.>I know it sounds like I am gay doesn't it? But seriously I cannot get aroused by men. Am I a guy who wants to be a lesbian then?? This is too weird. But my fantasies are always like that, being changed into a woman by tights and being pleasured by a group of women afterward. Somehow I am wondering if in my mind as a child I was confused by exposure to tights and that my sexual psyche associated "female" with "tights" instead of "girls".>My hope would be to have a very satisfying sexual relationship with a woman and just "tights on the side". But if I am only sometimes getting turned on by sex with a woman, how can I have a real lasting and satisfying long term relationship? I do not want to go through life alone with lifeless tights.>I think I need a shrink. Who doesn't these days right? Anyway I thought that maybe I would post here on the odd chance of finding someone who can share a similar viewpoint and how they have managed. Many thanks for any supportive comments. Flamers do not bother as I will not even take the time to reply. I share your feelings and concerns. But I have good news for you. You are not gay, and you're not alone!! You'd be surprised how many guys have fetishes for some article of female apparel. Having a fetish for tights and leotards is a bit off the beaten path, but there are quite of few of us straight guys who love women, but love wearing tights and leotards even more. I agree with the other person who says that you shouldn't let your tights fetish dominate your life. For me it has been an obession of mine for over 30 years. I do control it by only spending one or two days a week wearing tights, leotards, unitards, zentai suits, catsuits, ballet slippers, pointe shoes and anything else that is tight and clingy. I do not agree with the rather simplistic idea of just giving up wearing tights. One important thing to remember that your tights fetish is as much a part of you as the color of your eyes. Denying it only makes you want it more. Restraint, yes. Quitting, no!! I to have tried to give up wearing tights. I have gone several years in fact not wearing tights. I remember one time I gathered together all my tights and leotards and stuffed them into and old suitcase and throwing them into a nearby river and thinking I was free of them. However, as time went on, my desire to wear my tights was overpowering. After several months I gave in and rescued that suitcase and was happy to once again be wearing my tights and leotards even though they were not in the best condition after sitting at the bottom of a river for such a long time!!! I had to quickly buy a whole new wardrobe of tights and leotards!! So I hope what I've written here is of help to you and other guys who maybe confused about why they crave wearing tights. The Riddler Answers to this message:
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