geschrieben von Arne Nortvedt                 am 20.02. um 18:27:25 - als Antwort auf: Re: PROBLEM WITH MY SON von Tom>>>LAST WEEK MY SON HAVE STARTED A BALLET LESSON AND HIS TEACHER>TOLD ME THAT HE IS REALLY GRACEFULL AND SHE WONTS HIM TO DANCE>WITH ANOTHER BOY AS A BALLERINA>>>SHOULD I LET HIM>>If this thread were even 1% true, I'd advise you to remove him>from that particular ballet school, as no one would ever ask a boy>to dance as a ballerina. But since I feel that this thread is a>complete waste of time, I won't even bother!!!>Sounds like fantasy to me, especially since you don't teach>partnering to beginners. But if, against all the odds, it's>genuine, I'd investigate that teacher rather closely. Ballet is an>art form, not a playground for kinky people. And if, in spite of>all that, it seems to be for real, have a *long* talk with your>son and see how he feels about it. Don't let anybody pressure him>into doing something he doesn't want to do.>Tom >I am educated as a schoolpsycolog and works in the higher school and find the proposal very fascinating. I think he very well can manage the role as a ballerina becouse his teacher mean he is very graceful. I think he has a lot of traditionoal feminine components in his personality as he may be other times supress and will first hesitate and may be refuse. Don`t press him, but say he can do it only if he wants, and give him time to think about it. I think if he dare to dress and act as a ballerina, he will find it very exciting and it will give him a good opertunity to expose his whole personality and be a more happy boy. I would be glad to hear from you.Arne Antworten zu diesem Beitrag:
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