geschrieben von balletman5 at am 26.01. um 16:22:51 - als Antwort auf: Re: PROBLEM WITH MY SON von Arne Nortvedt >>>>LAST WEEK MY SON HAVE STARTED A BALLET LESSON AND HIS TEACHER>>TOLD ME THAT HE IS REALLY GRACEFULL AND SHE WONTS HIM TO DANCE>>WITH ANOTHER BOY AS A BALLERINA>>>>SHOULD I LET HIM>>>If this thread were even 1% true, I'd advise you to remove him>>from that particular ballet school, as no one would ever ask a boy>>to dance as a ballerina. But since I feel that this thread is a>>complete waste of time, I won't even bother!!!>>Sounds like fantasy to me, especially since you don't teach>>partnering to beginners. But if, against all the odds, it's>>genuine, I'd investigate that teacher rather closely. Ballet is an>>art form, not a playground for kinky people. And if, in spite of>>all that, it seems to be for real, have a *long* talk with your>>son and see how he feels about it. Don't let anybody pressure him>>into doing something he doesn't want to do.>>Tom>>I am educated as a schoolpsycolog and works in the higher school and find the proposal very fascinating. I think he very well can manage the role as a ballerina becouse his teacher mean he is very graceful. I think he has a lot of traditionoal feminine components in his personality as he may be other times supress and will first hesitate and may be refuse. Don`t press him, but say he can do it only if he wants, and give him time to think about it. I think if he dare to dress and act as a ballerina, he will find it very exciting and it will give him a good opertunity to expose his whole personality and be a more happy boy. I would be glad to hear from you.>Arne the physcologist is right talk to him first see how he thinks about it. You never know he may want to do it providing it is a one off of course. But be aware if he does dance with another boy dressed as a ballerina there could be a slight chance that he'll want to do it again and probably become Homosexual. hope this helps Antworten zu diesem Beitrag:
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