geschrieben von Arne Nordtvedt                am 20.02. um 18:55:57 - als Antwort auf: Re: PROBLEM WITH MY SON von Tom>>>LAST WEEK MY SON HAVE STARTED A BALLET LESSON AND HIS TEACHER>TOLD ME THAT HE IS REALLY GRACEFULL AND SHE WONTS HIM TO DANCE>WITH ANOTHER BOY AS A BALLERINA>>>SHOULD I LET HIM>>If this thread were even 1% true, I'd advise you to remove him>from that particular ballet school, as no one would ever ask a boy>to dance as a ballerina. But since I feel that this thread is a>complete waste of time, I won't even bother!!!>Sounds like fantasy to me, especially since you don't teach>partnering to beginners. But if, against all the odds, it's>genuine, I'd investigate that teacher rather closely. Ballet is an>art form, not a playground for kinky people. And if, in spite of>all that, it seems to be for real, have a *long* talk with your>son and see how he feels about it. Don't let anybody pressure him>into doing something he doesn't want to do.>Tom I am educated as a schoolpsycolog and work in the higher school. I found the proposal very fascinating and think he very well will manage the role as a ballerina as his theacher think he is very graceful.I think he has a lot of traditionl feminine components in his personality as he otherwise may be suppress and will first hesitate and may be refuse to the proposal. Don`t press him but say he can do it only if he wants, and give him time to think about it. If he dare to dress and act as a ballerina,I think he will find it very exciting and give him an oppurtunity to express other sides of his personality and be a more happy boy. I would be glad to hear from you.Arne Antworten zu diesem Beitrag: |
