geschrieben von serious questi am 22.07. um 00:27:55 - als Antwort auf: Re: serious questions. von Bob at >"Getting rid of it" isn't really an option because wearing tights is part of who you are. The experience of thousands of men verifies that.>Instead, you need to seek to understand yourself better. Ask yourself why you like wearing tights? How does it make you feel? At what times do you most want to wear tights, and when do you not really care one way or another? Ask again and again, in different situations. Ask when you're wearing them and when you're not wearing them.>Another good thing is to wear tights in public. If they are an expression of who you are, then that is nothing to be ashamed of. Before venturing out, make sure you are pleased with how you look --- tights under shorts in the Fall might be a good outfit, for example. If you look confident then people won't make such a big deal out of it --- and you will find that you feel better about yourself. That is especially true if you don't attempt to look like a woman, but rather like a man wearing tights.>The first places to venture out are "anonymous" places --- shopping malls, for example. After that you might feel comfortable around friends. You may never wish to try wearing these outfits to work, but that may be OK with you. You will find affirmation for who you are and find that the thoughts of wearing tights hold less of a grip on your life. thanks - that's the main point - i really want them to have less of a grip on my life. I have thought about 'acting out' a fantasy or maybe pursuing something like dance where i would have to wear them and eventually it would work itself out. I thought it would go away, but it always seems to come back. the internet doesn't help, that's for sure. Antworten zu diesem Beitrag:
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