I guess the thing I dislike the most is, it makes the very end of my tailbone ache after an hour or so.  Does this eventually go away, or is the thong part too short?

My second question is, when I first put the dancebelt on, my "package" is sometimes too outlined even through my shorts.  This eventually goes away, but how do I make things look nice and smooth right away?

These things are so frustrating!  :(