 Male dancewear
geschrieben von Pat            am 04.04. um 18:45:25 - als Antwort auf: It's not my intention to offend anyone, but... von Sith-Lord at>First off, I want to thank eveyone who's helped me with my dancewear questions. This is a very new experience for me, and I really appreciate coming here to ask my questions, because here I can ask questions without being embarassed in front of my whole class. But I have to admit, sometimes I get a creepy feeling coming here. I realize the world of dance encompasses more than just dance, but to me, dancewear is just for dance. Sometimes when I see some of these posts about sexual fetishes about dancewear, or related stuff, I can't help but relate that to dance, and then that dancing to me. I don't know, but it leaves me feeling uncomfortable---like I'm suppose to read more into a simple pair of tights than I realize. I'm rambling, but I kinda makes me feel like I'm doing something seedy by asking questions. This is of course entirerly subjective on my part, and of course everyone is entitled to their own opine, but is it really necessary to post about fetish stuff when this is suppose to be a serious discussion about needed dance attire? Granted I'm not trying to flame anyone here, or single out any specific post, but I personally feel this board should be reserved for serious discussion, because I'm sure there are plenty of other fetish sights out there that would suffice for dancewear fantasies. These are just my thoughts. Hope I don't offend anyone. I absolutely agree with you. This message board should be discussing dancewear, period. I am a female and view all the dance message boards consistently, so I do read Male Dancewear board often. I have taken class for many years and have had males in class every once in a while (they never seem to stick it out for any long length of time like the women). The last thing all the women in class want is some guy fantisizing about tights and thong leotards. Sometimes on this board men talk about getting erections during class (and not because there are females close by). Dance class is very difficult, strenuous, and takes lots of attention and dedication. Women are not in class thinking about how wonnnnnderfullll it feels to have a sports bra on, or the feel of legwarmers on their calves. They are in class to dance and learn. It should be the same on this board - questions and answers about male dance fashions, sources, and advice. It is an absolute shame that serious visitors are unhappy with the information they find here. It seems like some of the posts on this board are almost predatory. If there are no bodywear fetish sites and boards available (and I know for a fact that there are lots), then start one and leave this one alone. Antworten zu diesem Beitrag:
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