 the male dancer
written by Willie at on 24.05. at 15:34:30 - as answer to: Misplaced passion! by balletboy >What do you go to classes for...watching others or working on ballet and your technique. Classes are the place to focus on your ballet technique, not the "arousing" girls (or guys, my preference).>Do you focus on your penis and how it's aroused, or the demands of the class? I don't think once about sex, only my ballet technique. Do you focus on the sensuality of tights, or what the teacher is saying? >Classes are for dance, not to arouse sexual feelings. If you can't focus on the class, you have to consider what is more important.>There is a sensuality to ballet, but that's for stage performances, NOT for the times, in classes, when you are supposed to be doing barre and center-floor exercises.>Believe me, I understand being aroused by sexy dancers (whether male for me or female for you), but classes are not the place for it, and I know I will not progress in a class if my tongue is hanging out for my class-mates. Do you want to go to class the be aroused or to learn ballet? I go because I want to learn and progress in ballet. The more my attention is diverted, the less I progress.>If you only went to classes at the insistance of your girlfriend, do you really want to learn? Maybe that's why you're focusing on matters other than the class.>My advice: get out if you don't want to learn and cannot focus on the class. The passion for dance class should not be passion for the dancers in class!>balletboy I am a VERY serious student in my ballet classes. I kind of resent your snobby attitude that someone like me doesn't belong in ballet. I started taking ballet at the insistance of my girlfriend. I hated it at first, but eventually grew to love the physical benfits it offers. My problem of being aroused during class is of great concern to me. The last thing I want to do is create a disturbance in class. Ballet has come to mean a lot to me. I would never do anything to jeopardize my ballet life. That said, I find it dificult to beieve that I'm the only male to ever get turned on by wearing tights, and being surrounded be good looking girls in their skin tight attire. Get real dude!! Just because I find tights comfortable, and the veiw attractive, doesn't mean I should banished from ballet. I wrote this post to seek help, not to be belittled. I hope that some more understanding male dfancers will offer me some legit help. Answers to this message:
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